To be with someone you have to be able to BE with someone.

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& Sometimes that someone has to be yourself for a while.

When is the last time you truly spent time alone with your soul? It gets harder to find that time when we be around everybody but God. To be with someone you must have access to BE. Be yourself, be free, be pushed to your true potential. Whatever being may look like for the sake of your happiness, BE..with yourself, as well as God.

I lived a great deal of my life chasing love in the form of the fleeting. What I come to find is nothing in this world is stable enough to sustain me. Toxic or Karmic connections present themselves in order to call us higher. These are those relationships that show us the pain we’ve been inflicting on others or the hurt we cause ourselves. In order to truly heal this pain we have to be alone, to clearly layout the hindrances in our life, and hear God’s solutions uninterrupted.

If you find yourself in any connection that does not bring you to higher vibration and purpose, get away. Love should feel like home or freedom. God is love, love creates us to be who we are, and encourages the same in others. The world tends to feed us daily guidelines that lead people from authenticity. So most relationships come to destruction at the hands of displacement, ( being disaligned with soul’s purpose.)

In life you may find yourself going through what feels like cyclic crucifixions, repeating trauma or tendencies that only change enviroment or face.
Until we can learn to first be ourselves, then shape our live around what makes our spirit whole authentically, we will live in misery. Two major catalysts for happiness is a healthy home or fulfilled freedom. A soul that cannot BE full, will deteriorate in either. Choose all that allows you to BE, with God and with ourself. Keep a vibe that feels like home…or freedom.

Peace & Positivity

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Things God Would Say To Your Inner Worth

For starters, this is a Collaborative post! I met Kylie through reading her work on WordPress. Instantly I was both inspired and uplifted by her word usage. She knows well what people are worth and does a great job of reminding them of that. Thank you Kylie for all your positive work! Check out more of her work at

Jesus, Beauty, Society, Life, Struggles & More!

God is real and moves in mysterious ways. He is ready to move mountains in your life. Read our take on what he might say to your inner worth!
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All the love I ever created led to you.

You punish yourself more than I would.

I think you keep forgetting you were made for this.

This isn’t beyond repair.

Beauty begins and ends with you.

I want to feel needed too.

Trust me when you don’t trust yourself…or the world.

This world isn’t stable enough to sustain you.

Everything I create is perfection.

We often forget our source. So I came to remind you. When you don’t trust the world, or yourself, you can trust God. The best part is he has a lot of love for the one who once was lost and may need to be found. May you go within and find him. In a fast paced, loud living world it can get hard to hear God’s voice. I came to remind you he still speaks. When life gets a bit Rocky, find silence and solitude. This will lead you to serenity; God’s peace. I have found him during some of my darkest times. May your world be filled with light!

– 90SGURU_

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My Child, I see you.

I see you when you’re worrying about something to the point you’re afraid about what is going to happen.

I know when you’re too hard on yourself and when you feel like giving up.

I have heard your cries and your constant prayers.

I already have everything planned out for your life, but you still continue to worry.

My Child, I love you so much and there is not one flaw in you.

I have created you for a reason and you do have a purpose in this world.

I know how the world can be, but just know that I have no part in what has been happening.

It is easy to get lost in all of it; you need to keep your eyes on Me in order to find peace.

You matter so much to me.

You will go through many obstacles in your life and they are only there to help you become closer to me.

Please keep on fighting for Me.

Come back to Me.

I can imagine God saying those things to each of us in the background while we’re going through situations that life throws at us! I bet He tries to get us to listen to Him, but do we really? God tells us that His love is unconditional and how He’ll never leave us, but we keep on pushing Him away by saying, “No, I don’t deserve Your love and I’m not worthy enough.” Have you ever thought that before? Honestly, there was a time in my life where I tried to push God away and thought that I wasn’t worthy enough to be His Daughter. We are all worthy and He loves us so much! I pray that you rest in God’s peace and know that everything will be ok.

– KYLIE

I want to thank Marquise Payne for having me on the A Gurus Writing blog and I have enjoyed collaborating with him on this blog post! It amazes me how talented Marquise is in his writings and I know he is leading you guys closer to Christ by his words. Marquise, keep on doing what you’re doing!

Fearful Nakedness

Would you be able to survive on the TV show Naked and Afraid? If you’ve never seen it, two survival specialists get dropped off naked, having to survive 21 days by their own means. It is in a state of complete vulnerability where they become most human, reaching their peak of mental and spiritual strength. Becoming vulnerable to our challenges forces us to face fear to overcome.

While watching an episode, I made a revelation. You begin to notice as days go by the contestants physically deteriorate, but what’s interesting is they develop a fighting spirit. So if intense challenges bring out the fight in us, why are we so quick to look for a way out? We fight hardest when our back is against the wall. Many of the heroic career paths i.e Army, Policy officers, firefighter; must undergo intense mental and physical training. Much of this training includes overcoming obstacles, in the end you get a hero.

Be willing to be vulnerable in your life. Be open to challenges , facing fears, and putting yourself on the line. With any amount of sacrifice comes great gain. The human spirit is Ego driven and moderately feeding it is important. When you overcome struggles you gain a sense of pride. Overcoming struggle yields confidence and a winning attitude.

Developing a pattern of mental perseverance will allow you to become unstoppable. Everything in your life remains at peace, and you approach problems with a clear head. You will begin to keep your head higher and walk with a whole new bop in your step. Embrace obstacles. It is the key to Mastering the art of Overcoming. Allow yourself to become vulnerable with a premeditated strength. This premeditation is an acceptance that says to self ” I know in the end I’ve won, so I’m willing to take risks.” What you feed will grow, and sometimes what you starve will grow too, like an appetite for success. Stay hungry, be fearless and naked… metaphorically.

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Clarity over Calamity

Clarity is like being in a dark room full of tools you didn’t know you had, and cutting the lights on. It breeds action. Having a clear mind allows room for effective problem solving. The tricky part is gaining it. How do we do that before having a Britney Spears episode?

Three practices immediately come to mind. Though it must be developed over time, keep faith, patience, and meditate often. Now, you don’t need some crazy brujeria ritual to meditate. Find some gap of time in your day to just breathe, and I mean just that, BREATHE! As you begin to relinquish the stress and noise of the world, you can tune into you. It sounds typical but everything you need truly is either inside of you or on it’s way. Only worry about things you can control, but be proactive in changing those things. We send ourselves into a spiral of self-sabotage, when we have things we know we can change but don’t.

Faith and patience play ping pong with each other. Our faith strengthens when wait and see things actually unfold in their timing. Our patience is strengthened when we have faith things will come. See that little back and forth match. Get the ball bouncing by picking one small thing to just believe for. A WHOLEHEARTED belief. Keep a naive certainty that it will happen, AND IT WILL!

Peace and prosperity to you!
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Rise of The Struggle Babies

We are at a time in history where people want success and happiness, instantly. For a great deal of time the wealthy have run our society, leaving the bottom feeders forgotten. Most people love a good underdog story. The problem is most underdogs don’t have the resources to tell them. Until now.

The social media industry is booming. We now have a platform to showcase your talent and abilities, but more importantly quickly bring them to the world. There are so many people with so much potential getting overlooked. Success is a journey, in which one must take optimal care of the mind. As the average person begins to adopt an overcoming mindset, a flow of conquering will begin. We will no longer have to see so many go hungry and forgotten. Love and abundance will flow.

“Struggle babies” tend to have a different level of hunger. A deep appreciation, cultivated from lack. It’s a beautiful character trait. In my research Gratitude is one of the most powerful supernatural forces. What would accomplishment look like in the hands of the grateful? We tend to give more when we have less. We know the feeling. Continue to help me bring these keys to the overlooked. Help the struggle babies RISE!

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Chaotic Harmony

I hope you had your breakfast, coffee, and positive affirmations this morning. Don’t fly past the latter. Look around you for a moment. Really take in the scenery whatever that may be. See how harmonious this world is? See how everything is chaotic, yet flows with muscle memory. That same harmony is inside of you. Despite all the chaos that may have happened in your life, you are still in perfect harmony. That is powerful. The understanding that you are completion.

In mastering the art of overcoming, it’s pertinent you understand you are already whole. Once having adopted this mentality, you will no longer go without because you’ll find all you need within. That sounds real “peachy-teachy” but trust me like a friend. It’s fact. I lived a great deal of my life lost in who I was trying to find myself in drugs, women, and “thrilling but fleeting” moments. Guess what I became? Fleeting! Jumping from different place to person to opportunity that felt like home. If you are familiar with this sort of lifestyle you know you “see things,” and learn allot quickly. The most important lesson has been; understand your soul, to every degree. It is your world.

The take away here is trusting your soul. Not that half-assed ” yeah, I know I’m a good person” trust. Keep that ” The creator of the universe molded me into this perfect harmony” trust in your soul. When problems begin to arise, panic takes over less, with perfect harmony thinking. Perfect harmony thinking is simply, “This too shall pass,” “Things always work out,” or any thoughts promoting harmony. Meditate on this. Share your thoughts below. And ask yourself this question. “What would the world’s symphony sound like, played with my perfect harmony?”

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